I work with high-achieving women and leaders who are ready to recalibrate identity, decision-making, and internal strategy so their external success reflects their true capacity.

My work is designed for those who have already done significant personal work and are no longer interested in staying in cycles of constant processing or self-correction.

Who I Am

I’m Dr. Monica Nicole, a private advisor specializing in subconscious strategy, identity recalibration, spiritual connections, and long-range personal transformation.

My background spans education, hypnotherapy, behavioral science, and end-of-life transition work. I bring these disciplines together to help individuals and organizations identify the unseen internal structures that shape leadership, decision-making, relationships, and outcomes.

Through my private work and the Butterfly Effect School of Transformation, I advise clients at the identity and systems level. This is not motivational coaching or surface-level mindset work. It is precise, outcome-driven recalibration designed for people operating at higher levels of responsibility.

My Approach

Most high-performing individuals are not blocked by lack of effort or intelligence. They are limited by internal patterns that were formed earlier in life and never updated as their capacity expanded.

My work focuses on accessing and restructuring those subconscious frameworks so clarity, stability, and alignment become the operating standard rather than something to work toward.

Clients come to me when they are ready to move beyond cycles, over-functioning, and internal friction and into a way of operating that is cleaner, calmer, and more intentional.

Transitional and End-of-Life Advisory

As a Certified Spiritual Death Doula, I also work with clients navigating major life transitions. These include the end of identities, relationships, roles, and life chapters.

This work is grounded, discreet, and reverent. It supports individuals in meeting transitions with clarity, meaning, and composure rather than fear or avoidance.

Education and Credentials

  • Doctor of Education
    Specialization in Childhood Trauma, End-of-Life Trauma, and Emotional Co-Regulation

  • Master’s Level Social Worker
    Specialization in Interpersonal Therapy, Group Dynamics, and Grief Work

  • Certified Hypnotherapist
    Specialization in Subconscious Patterning, Past Life Regression, and Higher Self Work

  • Certified Spiritual Death Doula
    Spiritual End-of-Life Care and Ancestral Transition Support

  • Licensed Algebra and Special Education Teacher

Experience Highlights

  • Founder of the Butterfly Effect School of Transformation, a private educational ecosystem focused on subconscious mastery, identity work, and personal strategy

  • Trained thousands of educators and professionals in trauma-informed practices, relationship-based leadership, and behavioral awareness

  • Presenter at national and regional leadership conferences and professional development workshops

  • Increased student academic progress by an average of one full grade level per quarter through identity-aware and regulation-based educational frameworks

  • Peer-reviewed author of
    “Considerations for Incorporating Trauma-Informed Care Content within Special Education Teacher Preparation”

  • Doctoral dissertation
    “Transmuting Childhood Trauma: A Case Study on How Childhood Trauma Impacts the Career Paths of Special Education Teachers”

Working Together

This work is for individuals who are no longer interested in managing symptoms or endlessly revisiting the same internal conversations.

It is for those who are ready to operate with clarity, authority, and internal congruence.

Engagements are selective and designed for depth, discretion, and results.


The Journey of A 1000 miles, begins with a single step.
— Lao Tzu, Proverb