Have you ever just sat and asked yourself, what is wrong with me?
Why are so many things not going in my favor?
What am I doing wrong?
Many of us ask ourselves these questions often. There is nothing wrong with asking ourselves these questions, if we are asking from a place of growth.
Not everyone reflect on the past as a way to grow and get better; but as a way to beat themselves down for what happened… as a way to feel bad for themselves and relinquish guilt through projecting.
Then…. next thing you know…
The same thing happens again…..and again…. and AGAIN!
The reason why, is because you never really did the shadow work to begin with. Instead of getting better, you complained and swept it under the rug; BECAUSE YOU WEREN’T THE PROBLEM? Is that what it was?
Next time you find yourself in unsettling circumstances, take a moment to look in the mirror and look deeper than the surface. Don’t just look at what you are doing wrong, but applaud all the things you are doing exceptional. Don’t just beat yourself up, but allow yourself to level up. Don’t just blame other people, take accountability for what YOU did.
That’s the only way we can stop the madness!
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