This one mistake messes up our manifestation
Life had to hit me upside the head and remind me, I am what I think and believe.
Recently, on my YouTube channel, I had a moment.
During this moment I was talking about how I felt many people in my inner circle didn’t support me in ways I shared I needed. The more I think about it, it was not only a selfish thought to have… but I was also manifesting those same negative things.
What I mean by this is. By me focusing on the negatives of what I believe to be true, I was missing out on all of the positives around me that were occurring at the same time. Life had to hit me upside the head and remind me, I am what I think and believe.
We do this often in our everyday lives. It is so easy for us to look around us and see all the things that are not working in our favor. While we do this, we are taking away precious time and energy from the things that could actually be pushing us forward. So, what can we do to manifest what it is we actually want?
The first step is believing and DOING those things we hope to attract. When we look at our past successes, we have to be reminded of what it took to achieve those wins. When we do that… we have taken the most important step that is needed.
It’s ok to have our down moments, but when they come; don’t allow yourself to stay there.
We have to readjust our thoughts and get back up!
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How to love yourself
I don't know about you... But I am SICK AND TIRED of people telling me what I should do, to show that I love myself! Self love this... self love that... blah blah blaaaaah! If you're tired too, then this is for you.
Is there really a set of rules in place to show us what we should do, to love ourselves? If you’re anything like me… then I know you are probably tired of everyone around you telling you what you should be doing to show that you truly love yourself.
You should be taking trips, taking moments for self care, and even going to therapy. We get this long list of things that we should be doing to embrace the love we “should” be having inside of us. It's so much that it begins to override what we really should be focusing on… which is what is inside.
That is on that. True self love can only come from yourself. It is not a long list of things you should be doing to show you care. It honestly can be redefined daily if you feel it is necessary.
At the end of the day, make sure you are being true to your spirit and listening to that inner voice that is guiding you. Now, if it is telling you to book that trip to the beach; book it. If it is telling you that you need to take a trip to a therapist; book your appointment. But, if it is telling you to remain silent and just breathe… well my love you already know what I have to say…. JUST BREATHE!