The Real Reason Why We Fear Starting Something New
Thankfully, we are living in a time where many people are coming out of their shells and denying the ideals they were taught when they were younger. They are no longer subscribing to…
Whew chile!!
So guess what? (who really said “what girllll?”) lol
So, I just made it public that I’m releasing my first Romance Erotica Novel and I definitely received mixed responses. I had some people unfollow/unfriend/unsubscribe… and then I had others congratulate me and share how much they couldn’t wait to read it. I had people telling me how brave I was to take such a leap and all I could think about was how nervous I was deep inside.
You know, I was raised in a very strict Christian focused home. We didn’t talk about sex, female sexuality, or even relationships. Honestly, I was so ill-prepared that I had to learn through experience, and boy was that a rollercoaster hunty! The way I was raised had me in a box that made me afraid to try new things or explore topics that weren’t often talked about. It honestly took me breaking away from my family to finally be free. I know not everyone has this experience, but this was mine.
The fear we oftentimes have when it comes to doing something different, outside of the box, stems from our personal confidence and how we were raised. Unfortunately, all of us weren’t raised to question life, to research, to test out different options. Many of us were told what to do and what not to do, and it oftentimes was painted in black and white. This way of living most times stifles more than it helps.
Thankfully, we are living in a time where many people are coming out of their shells and denying the ideals they were taught when they were younger. They are no longer subscribing to what people have told them about themselves and have embarked on a journey of self-discovery and personal freedom. Everyday is a journey and everyday you have to wake up with the idea that you will try something new and break down another barrier that has been built in your subconscious.
You got this, I promise you do! It starts with you saying to yourself: “I reject the lies that I have been taught and embrace the journey to discovering a new truth and way of life.”
Then, make that jump… most times than not, you’ll be grateful that you took the leap :-)
Oh yea, if you’re into romance erotica novels, check out my new book here!
The importance of building & manifesting in silence
Why is it that your goals keep failing? It's like as soon as you get excited about something new, it falls through once again. I'mma let you know right now that it has alot to do with wh...
After spending most of my life sharing everything I was working on, I decided to stop in 2022. I didn’t realize the power that was found within building in silence in order to manifest. It was when I separated myself from everyone when I realized that I was surrounded by alot of negative energy. It was also when my life started to EXPLODE!
That same negative energy was a major culprit in my confidence, energy, and mental health. I’m a human design reflector, a very rare personality type that is sensitive to others and their energy. Those who are familiar with the Human Design aspect would understand most what I mean by that.
I’m very vulnerable energetically.
I take on the energy around me and transmute it back into the world. Because of this, I realized that my surroundings were critical in my success. Instead of venting on the phone, gossiping, or listening to others who were disgruntled with their life; I separated myself and surrounded myself with more positive energy.
I stopped sharing my goals and plans with low vibrational energies who weren’t in the place to understand because all it would do is add more confusion to me when they’d instill doubt.
I’m sure I’m not the only one who has been affected by something like this.
It’s like as soon as you tell someone about your plan, everything starts to fall through. Most times, it’s because they were sending doubt and evil eye your way unknowingly. Most of the time, it’s not intentional… it’s just usually their energy and how they feel about themselves being projected onto you.
When you build in silence, you hold yourself accountable for your work. You begin to move more intuitively. You begin to talk to God more and trust your personal judgement. You no longer seek validation, because you have faith in what you’re doing, for you!
I want to present you with a challenge…
Take the next 30 days to work and build in silence. No blasting on social media. No telling your friends and family every details of what you’re doing (unless they are apart of it). No more living out loud, before a good foundation is in place. I can GUARANTEE THAT YOU WILL SEE A MAJOR SHIFT IN YOUR LIFE!
When you finish, I want you to come back and tell you what the results were!
Until then… I want you to always be real, always be true, and never be afraid to do what YOU WANT TO DO! Periodt! I’m interested in hearing your thoughts! Feel free to leave me a comment below!